Are your programming language criticisms misdirected?

Let's say you use a programming language that you don't like or have other issues with. Is that the language's fault or yours?
Why not use a different language? or technology?

If tooling makes the language easier to work with, is not using that tooling the language's fault?

If using a language that wasn't meant to be written by hand and writing it by hand (typed directly, without other tools) the fault of the language?

If the language is significantly easier to use via a tool and the company responsible for the language don't make good tools, is that the fault of the language or the company?

If a new tool makes directly working with the programming language unnecessary, does that indicate a failure of the language or that it shouldn't have been used that way? Or that the wrong tool/language was being used?

If a language was originally designed as way of storing output from a tool and you're now writing that "output" directly, does it make sense to write it the same way as the tool did? Or would it be better to write it in a way that's easier for you to read and write?

If you are unhappy with a language or how it's used, shouldn't you look at alternatives to that language or other ways of using/writing it?

Are you blaming someone or something else for your choices or lack of action?

Does the above offend you? Or is it a cause for action?