I've been thinking a lot about communication (I know--fun, right?!) and especially about questions. This is because asking and responding to questions (not just answering them) is a large part of communication.
So, 12(+) questions to ask yourself before asking a question:
- Can I work out the answer myself?
- Can I find the answer myself?
- Will the person I'm asking know the answer?
- Can they know the answer?
- Will they be able to give me an answer if they know?
- What will it cost them to answer?
- Will this impact my ability or opportunity to ask other questions?
- Will others want to know the answer?
- Have others asked the question before? and what, if any, answer did they get?
- Why isn't the answer easily/already available?
- Is this the best time to ask? And if not, when is?
- Have I been paying attention to what has been said already?
- Other?
I know the above is a generalization, and it won't apply to all questions but is a helpful summary of the things to consider.
Not all are always relevant, appropriate, or useful, but all are worth considering before asking (or even answering) a question.
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